We've been divorced for a little while and now he's looking for another shot. Does my cheating ex husband deserve a second chance?
There really is no right or wrong answer for this question. It is entirely up to you. It is a good idea though to make sure you get the answer to a few more questions before you make up your mind about whether or not your cheating ex husband deserves a second chance.
1) Do you believe your husband loves you? If you don't believe he loves you there is no point in going forward. You'll always be overwhelmed with insecurity and unable to really let your guard down enough to give your relationship that second chance. If you do believe your husband loves you then you know he would have a hard time putting you through this kind of pain again now that he has seen how devastated you were when you found out.
2) Do you still love your husband? For most women, the act of cheating doesn't instantly eviscerate all the love they feel for their husbands. It might make it harder to tap into and hold onto but that doesn't mean it's gone. Chances are that you still do love your husband but if you do not there is no point in kidding yourself or offering false hope to your husband for a second chance that isn't meant to be.
3) Do you believe your husband will do whatever it takes, even if it's uncomfortable or foreign to him, to make your relationship work this time around? You know your husband best. Is he the type to willingly help out or does there have to be a lot of arm bending to get his help? If you don't think he's going to be part of the solution this time around you'll have to decide if you're willing to shoulder the burden alone. He might surprise you but more often than not, if he isn't willing to change, you're both just prolonging the inevitable.
4) Are you willing to change? You must also be willing to make changes for the sake of the relationship, your second chance, and in the hopes of a future together. Are you willing to get your hands dirty to make that happen? We don't get opportunities for second chances often enough in life. You should try to make sure you are both willing to make the most of your second chance before you risk your heart again.
Most of the time it is well worth the risk to get your ex back � even after cheating.
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