Cheating is always the big litmus test in relationships when it comes to forgiveness. Many people believe that if you can get a partner, or even an ex, to forgive you for cheating then you can pretty much get your ex to forgive you for anything.
Don't get me wrong. Cheating devastates relationships. It is a tough storm for any relationship to weather but it isn't the only thing that can kill a relationship. It isn't even the most difficult to overcome.
That being said, learning the techniques that will help you get your ex to forgive you for cheating will help with almost any other relationship disaster you can experience. Try these great tips on for size and see if they don't make a real difference in your efforts.
Kill him with Kindness
Well, don't literally kill him with it but you can definitely knock your ex off his game. All you need to do is try a little kindness, genuine kindness, in your efforts to win him back.
You want forgiveness, right? You're going to have to give him a little something that says you've changed to work with.
Taking the time to be extra special kind to him is a great start. It definitely shows good intentions on your part. The key to making this successful though is keeping up with the kindness and making it the rule in your relationship rather than the exception.
Don't Ask; Don't Tell
This is the time when your lips need to be sealed. Show him how you've changed instead of telling him all about it. Let your ex see the changes you've made for the better and want to be a part of your life now that those changes have been made.
You don't need to ring your own bell. Your ex knows you well. Let him see that you are dedicated to making your relationship work this time around by doing nice things and remaining positive even if you feel like things are falling apart.
Step Away from Social Networking Sites
It's easy to vent your feelings on YouTube, FaceBook, Twitter, and through countless other social networking opportunities. Don't drag the name of your ex through the virtual mud if you're hoping to win him back.
Also avoid putting every emotion and thought out there for the world, and your ex, to read online. Once it's on the World Wide Web, it's there forever � even if you have second thoughts in the morning. Your best bet for the moment is to err on the side of silence and say nothing to your online friends until you've regained your composure.
It doesn't have to be complicated to win the heart of your ex all over again. You can get your ex back, even if you cheated but you need to get off to a strong start.
Watch this free video: http://www.getyourexbacknow.com/just_break_up3.html to find out what your first move needs to be and how to know when it's time to kick your efforts to save your relationship up a notch or wait a little longer.